Disability Day of Mourning: Honouring Disabled Victims of Filicide & Saying “Never Again”


Every year in the first week of March, people gather worldwide to honour and remember people who were murdered by their parents or other caregivers. This year, Autistics for Autistics will be observing the Disability Day of Mourning on March 2nd. We will gather virtually for a Zoom presentation that will include brief remarks, followed by the reading of the names and remembering of the victims of disability filicide, with a group discussion afterwards.

Unfortunately, the legal system has typically been more lenient towards parents who kill their disabled children, blaming the disability for the murder. As well, copycat murders often happen in the wake of a parent killing their disabled child.

The Disability Day of Mourning is a way to stand up for the victims of these murders, as we continue to pressure our legal system for true justice and the right to life, safety and care for all disabled people. It is also our way of saying to victims and their loved ones: “we honour you, we remember you, and you had the right to live.”

More information on how to register for the event:
https://www.facebook.com/events/s/disability-day-of-mourning-202/1491360298995539/

Support Bill C-273 to ban physical punishment of children in Canadian schools—& everywhere

More than sixty countries around the world have banned physical punishment of children—but in Canada, physical punishment of kids is endorsed by the Criminal Code!

We have a chance to help keep kids in Canada safe. (See below for how to email your MP.)

Peter Julian, a Member of Parliament from Burnaby BC, has introduced a Private Member’s motion, Bill C-273,  An Act to amend the Criminal Code. It would remove Section 43 of the Criminal Code that permits physical punishment of children in Canada.

Right now, the Criminal Code of Canada Sec. 43, states: “Every schoolteacher, parent or person standing in for a parent is justified in using force by way of correction toward a pupil or child, as the case may be, who is under his care…” The legislation was written 1892.

MP Julian’s Bill would repeal Section 43 of the Criminal Code and “end the legalized physical punishment of children in Canada,” in the words of MP Julian.

Amazingly, this is not a sure win. In fact, there have been 18 attempts over the years for a repeal. In 2003, the issue was brought before the Supreme Court of Canada who  ruled that the Criminal Code could continue to allow physical punishment of kids. As many of us have experienced and witnessed, violence and abuse towards children (especially in special education and especially students of colour) is not only tolerated, it is normalized.

Repealing Section 43 of the Criminal Code would create a legal grounds for individuals and families to fight back against Canadian schools’ use of seclusion rooms, restraint and all forms of physical abuse.

Please take a moment to find your MP’s email address/phone and contact to their office with this message, or one of your choosing:

“As your constituent, I am urging you to support Bill C-273, a Member’s Bill by MP Julian. It is long past time to end the physical punishment of children in school or any other setting. It is banned in more that 60 countries already. Please vote in favour of this Bill.”

There is no date set for the vote, but it could come up fast. The third reading is in progress, last step before MPs vote. Let your MP know how you feel today!

Many thanks to A4A member Cheryl for research! And many thanks to all for contacting your MPs.

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Autistics for Autistics is Canada’s self-advocacy organization. We are an autistic-led group and an international affiliate of the Autistic Self Advocacy Network (ASAN).
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Autistics for Autistics 2023 Report: Education, Support & Advocacy

2023 was a year of education, advocacy and outreach for our team. It was also a year of rest, renewal and support. It’s been 7 years since we founded A4A and in the true tradition of a sabbath/sabbatical, we used 2023 to take things a little slower while still making big changes through education, community-building and advocacy.

Here are some highlights from 2023:

MEDIA COVERAGE
As Canada’s autistic-led advocacy organization, we have become a go-to for media calls related to autistic human rights and the neurodiversity movement in Canada. Examples from 2023 include a Brampton Guardian story where Rishav addressed the issue of police violence against autistic people and CBC’s  interview with Anne about autistic rights.


COMMUNITY/EDUCATION
Global: International Disability Day of Mourning

Every March 1 since 2018, A4A has led vigils for the international Disability Day of Mourning, remembering those who were murdered by their parents/caregivers and saying: Never Again. Thank you to Gaby for co-ordinating, and to Caroline, Morgan, Raya, Rishav, Sam, Shannon and everyone who makes this important vigil happen.

City of Toronto: Vaccine Outreach
2023 marked the end of the Disability Vaccine Outreach Initiative, in which we partnered with the Centre for Independent Living Toronto (CILT). This City of Toronto-funded initiative helped ensure access for vaccinations including one-to-one support by our amazing Vaccine Ambassadors, Gaby and Sam, for autistic Torontonians with support needs.

City of Toronto: Neurodiversity Flag Raising
We have raised the neurodiversity flag at Toronto City Hall and are currently planning our event for 2024. It is an amazing celebration, with speeches and cake, and a moment of visibility as a part of our city. Many thanks to all organizers and to the City for welcoming our flag and celebrating neurodiversity.

The Autistic Health Access Project
Darla and Anne continued our groundbreaking Autistic Health Outreach Project, educating Canadian medical students about autistic health access needs at the University of Toronto and Queen’s University medical schools. They will be presenting this month at University of Toronto. Read more about it here.

Support: Our Discord & Facebook groups
Our chat groups on Discord and Facebook are a space for autistics to share resources and information, to connect, to vent, and brighten our days with cat memes! Our admins do an amazing job of organizing within the channels and everyone in the groups is an integral part of these supporting spaces. Endless thanks to all.

Community speaking engagements
We speak at workplaces, mental health agencies, schools and other venues about autistic realities and autistic rights. A 2023 example is Gaby’s presentations before Centre for Addictions and Mental Health about Autism, Neurodiversity and Models of Disability. Watch it here. Also in 2023, Charlotte (Métis Nation) spoke before the Nunavummi Disabilities Makinnasuaqtiit Society on Disability Across the Lifespan. Watch it here.

Advocacy for students and families
Throughout 2023, we wrote advocacy letters for families whose children face discrimination at school, and we connect them with resources. Sometimes all it takes is to share some resources and tools to help a school facilitate a child’s belonging and inclusion. Other times, it’s necessary to connect families with disability lawyers to fight for their rights.

Recently, we consulted with a community coalition about the need to modify the existing Accessibility for Ontarians Act. Autistics are not included among the disabled groups protected by this legislation, which creates a barrier when individuals and families try to seek inclusion and pursue human rights complaints. Autism should be a category of disability in Canadian law and we will continue to advocate for this.

Publication consulting
Several of our members review neurodiversity content of publications to ensure the diversity of our community and needs are represented. A 2023 example is Bridget and Anne’s work consulting on the Sex Information and Education Council of Canada’s Resources for Autistic and Disabled Youth and Service Providers for Youth.  Read the Guides here.

Coalitions: GTA Disability Coalition, Community Living Ontario
We are proud members of the GTA Disability Coalition, comprised of disability rights and services organizations across the Toronto area. In 2023, our group spoke at the Coalition’s online conference for the International Day for Persons with Disabilities, gave depositions on housing and transit at City of Toronto Budget Hearings and supported other coalition work.

In 2023, we continued to support and collaborate with Community Living Ontario to work towards ending abusive long-term care and institutional housing in our province, through the Alliance on Aging and Disability. Thank you to all partners and to Shawn from Community Living for inviting us.


LEGISLATIVE CHANGE: LOOKING BACK ON 7 YEARS

While we took a break from visiting politicians this year, we also celebrate achievements of the past 7 years in our work to end ABA, including: helping to get SLP & OT therapies and AAC devices included in Ontario autism funding and to decrease funding for ABA; legislation introducing oversight of Ontario’s ABA industry by an arms-length association; and autistic-led organizations being invited for the first time to assess and critique Canadian autism policy before the Senate of Canada in 2022.

While our efforts on Bill 160 to ban seclusion (isolation) rooms in schools faltered due to pandemic shutdowns and political change at Queen’s Park, we are glad to report there is a newly-created Canadian chapter of the Alliance Against Seclusion and Restraint, whose work we support.


2023: WORKING TOGETHER

Many thanks to everyone for all their efforts in 2023!

We encourage autistics across Canada who are interested in getting involved to contact us so that we can connect you with our planning networks.

Another way to support our work is with a small donation. We do not get grant funding and we appreciate individual donations to help pay for ASL at our events, as well as server fees and material costs for events. Donate here.

 

 

Autistic advocacy in Ontario: Highlights from 2022

The past year has been exciting, as we returned to in-person events and continue to grow, with new projects and connections across Canada!

Some highlights:

  • We raised the neurodiversity flag at Toronto City Hall, after 2 years of virtual observances. It was incredible to be together again in real life and to break bread (well, cake) and feel so welcomed by the protocols staff at Toronto City Hall. Thank you to all who attended.
  • We provided info & spoke before the Senate of Canada, together with Autistics United Canada (AUC), about the need for federal policymakers to move from a charity perspective to a rights perspective. Canadian policymakers need to begin to study best practices in disability policy and consult with autistic-led groups.
  • We continued to partner with the Centre for Independent Living Toronto (CILT) to improve vaccine access for autistic/disabled people through the Disability Vaccine Outreach Initiative, including our vaccine info webinar, social media outreach and one-to-one outreach by our amazing Vaccine Ambassadors, Gaby and Sam, to ensure access for autistic Torontonians with support needs. We are so glad that CILT included us in this important project!
  • We led the annual Disability Day of Mourning in Ontario, remembering those who were murdered by their parents/caregivers and saying: Never Again. Our members read names, gave speeches and provided support through a virtual vigil on March 2. Thank you to everyone who made this important vigil happen.
  • A4A members presented to the Ontario Association of College and University Housing Officers and to University of Waterloo about inclusion, student life and new research on autistic students in college and university. We have more invitations to present on this topic early in the new year!
  • We continued our groundbreaking Autistic Health Outreach Project, educating Canadian medical students about autistic health access needs at the University of Toronto and Queen’s University medical schools.
  • We continued to support and collaborate with Community Living Ontario to work towards ending abusive long-term care and institutional housing in our province, through the Alliance on Aging and Disability. Thank you to all partners for all their hard work on this issue, to our rep Taryn and to Shawn from Community Living for inviting us.
  • A4A was an organizing partner in the online annual Canadian national conference on the International Day for Persons with Disabilities (United Nations), which was hosted by the Alliance for Equality of Blind Canadians, streamed on Accessible Media International and featured speakers and participants from around the world.
  • We were contacted by media for stories about ABA, restraint and seclusion in schools, media portrayals of autism and other topics. It was especially awesome to be contacted by OWL magazine for their neurodiversity feature!
  • We consulted with a community coalition about the need to modify the existing Accessibility for Ontarians Act. At present, autistics are not included among the disabled groups protected by this legislation, creating a barrier when we try to seek inclusion and pursue human rights complaints.
  • We attempted to consult with the Public Health Agency of Canada about priorities in federal autism appropriations. Unfortunately, PHAC continued its pattern of devaluing autistic people’s input and time, so for the well-being of our reps we left the conversation. We will continue to connect with MPs, Senators and other federal agencies instead.
  • We continued to educate employers on inclusive supports and communication access for autistic people through our Autistic At Work presentation, and to present to mental health organizations about access and inclusion.
  • We began to plan for 2023, including launching our Neurodiversity Library with support from the Autistic Women & Nonbinary Network; joining a new, national coalition project to work for regulating legislation on restraint and seclusion in schools; taking action to promote supported independent living options for autistic and intellectually disabled people; new advocacy to protect people with epilepsy from cyber attacks; policy work, education initiatives and much more.

I feel so honoured to work with the Board and volunteers, who are the most incredible people. Any policymaker, parent, educator or organization is lucky to have access to their time, perspective and ideas. I can’t wait to see what the future brings for autistic rights in 2023.

-Anne Borden King

 

Election 2022: Ontario NDP’s autism disinformation campaign

Image 1. Source: Chris Bonello, online survey of 11,000+, including 7,491 autistics, published 2022

From a leaked memo by the Ontario NDP leadership to its candidates, May 2022:

“We fully support ABA and IBI therapies for people that choose that. We know there’s a small group that opposes them. We use person-first language and say ‘people with autism,’ we do not use the word ‘autistic.’ We know there are people who disagree with that; the majority of people with autism and their families prefer person-first language.” [emphasis added]

It is election season in Ontario–and according to the above memo and others, Ontario’s New Democratic Party is strong-arming its candidates to spread disinformation about ABA, a controversial autism therapy developed by a creator of a popular gay conversion therapy.

Quick fact checks: Despite the NDP’s claim that only “a small group” opposes ABA, a recent survey of more than 7,000 autistic people found that less than 4 percent of autistic people support ABA. (See Image 1, above.) And although the NDP claims “a majority” prefer the term person with autism, a full 91 percent of autistics polled use the term “autistic” to describe themselves. (See Image 2, below.)

Ontario’s NDP: In the pocket of the ABA lobby

The NDP is misrepresenting our community not because their leadership is ignorant about autistic people. Rather, the NDP’s autism talking points are part of a calculated disinformation campaign that seeks to re-establish ABA dominance in provincial autism funding.

In one of several memos leaked to us by fed-up party members, NDP’s executive team instructed candidates to advocate for the removal of all funding caps on ABA and to claim that such a dangerous policy would be preferred by “people with autism.” Here the NDP is trying (and failing) to discredit autistic groups through rhetoric–criticizing our community’s preferred ways of referring to ourselves to make autistic adults seem like “outsiders” in the policy discussion.

The NDP’s executive team also told candidates to claim that “important developmental windows closed for thousands of children” when the current Government put reasonable funding caps on ABA centres in order to newly allow funding for AAC, speech therapy and occupational therapy–choices that Ontario families overwhelmingly wanted. According to the NDP talking points, the only way to help kids is through a service monopoly by the ABA industry.

“Some children’s developmental potential is slipping away,” the NDP document claims, stating that caps on ABA therapy hours could mean: “opportunity [for children] to develop the ability communicate how they feel, or to stop self-harming behaviour, will be lost forever.” The industry’s persuasive technique goes back to the rhetoric of ABA’s founder, O Ivor Lovaas, a master manipulator who claimed in 1974 that children would have to be chained to beds unless he tortured them with “aversives” that including electroshocking, slapping and denying food and water to them. 

The ABA lobby in Ontario

At first glance, it is surprising that the NDP, a typically progressive party, supports ABA and IBI (the intensive form of ABA). Many centres are operated by private equity firms selling privately-managed “care” at an exorbitant cost. These segregated settings are known for human rights violations against the most vulnerable: developmentally disabled children, many of whom are Black, Indigenous and children of colour. ABA and IBI centres fall within a spectrum of private-equity brokered partnerships that include overcrowded, violent group homes and the disease-and-neglect-ridden long term care facilities that are the shame of our province.

But money talks. In Ontario, the IBI/ABA industry is a powerful interest group that has used its persuasive powers (including a contract with the Bay Street lobbying firm Pathway Group) to sell MPPs on the pork-barrel benefits of supporting IBI/ABA centres–which segregate autistic and intellectually disabled children from their peers–in their districts. The Ontario NDP’s vested interests are reflected in its talking points, which for years have shown stalwart support for cutting funds to occupational therapy, AAC and speech therapy in favour of an ABA monopoly in our province.

The ABA industry claims itself to be the “only evidence-based” way to help autistic children. That claim is patently false and deeply offensive. Autistic children deserve kindness and acceptance–not cruel behaviourist pseudoscience.

Autistic advocates: Fighting for policy reform

In Ontario, autistic and/or developmentally disabled children and their families were the victims of the ABA monopoly for years. In fact, from 2003 until 2018, ABA was the only publicly-funded autism therapy in Ontario, with parents paying out of pocket for speech and occupational therapies, as well as AAC systems for non-speakers and newer approaches like relational development therapy (RDI). Both the Liberals and the NDP supported the continued de-funding of these choices, forcing families to pay tens of thousands of dollars out of pocket for proven supports and therapies.

Autistic individuals and groups have met with Ontario NDP representatives over the years and provided clear documentation supporting AAC, speech and occupational therapies, as well as documentation that ABA is not an evidence-based approach. There is also a party group (Neurodivergent NDP) with autistic members. The NDP’s embattled Disability Coalition also has neurodivergent members.

Some in these groups have faced harassment by the ABA lobby; others have reported being treated unfairly by provincial NDP leadership. Many of our members have expressed that although they support the NDP’s views on other issues, they cannot in good conscience vote for a party that collaborates with the ABA industry and remains so unwelcoming to autistic voices.

When autistic people have shared our concerns about autism policy with NDP representatives, we’ve often had to listen to statements like “most children want ABA,” “you can only speak about adults’ rights.”

As systems thinkers, we know these messages are attempts by the party to regain control of the autism policy narrative. The NDP has chosen to ignore the broader conversations in policy circles on neurodiversity, equity and consultation–but they do so at their own peril. The fact is the neurodiversity movement now has a place in policy–and we’re here to stay.

Change is coming–despite the ABA lobby

In 2018 and 2019, our organization met with every provincial party at Queen’s Park. We were invited by a Liberal MPP, Michael Coteau, to attend the reading of Bill 160, which called for an end to abusive restraints and seclusion in Ontario schools (a crucial bill, currently stalled, that NDP has not supported). We also met with Green Party leader Mike Schreiner, who was supportive and inquisitive about our autism policy ideas. We met with Progressive Conservative MPPs to talk about broadening the scope of autism services to allow more choice. The Government delivered a more equitable autism services program—despite the NDP opposing it.

While other provincial parties are broadening their visions of autism policy, the Ontario NDP has decided to fall back on an old playbook, describing ABA as a saviour to families and portraying the neurodiversity movement (which is worldwide) as if it were a small cadre of local cranks. But the truth will prevail. Party members are never as loyal as their leadership would like—and they grow weary of being ordered to lie. There is neither peace nor unity in the Ontario NDP, nor is there transparency. This does not bode well for the party in the upcoming election.

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Source: Chris Bonello, online survey of 11,000+, including 7,491 autistics, published 2022

 

Note: Autistics for Autistics is a non-partisan group. We work with individual politicians in the interest of human rights for autistic children and adults. Likewise, we also speak out against any politician or party that opposes disability rights and equitable services for autistic people.